this one is for the Girls.

Women. Have you ever noticed how a group of women interact with eachother, in a mixed gender work enviorment, school, group or just in general life. All of us, work against eachother for the most part. And when we work against eachother competeing per say over attention, recognittion, and acceptance so to speak we accomplish the worst possible thing ever. Division. Worst of all in this divison we tend to get the boys involved. Oh yes, ofcourse we want them in our corner.... or the attention of them ... when  if any of us smart sophisticated woment would stop and think about what we are doing when we have a altercation with another female especially in a work enviorment is that they one the guy is not really listening to your story and doesnt really care about what we think. The situation to them it is just a "cat fight " which is negatively associated as silly, or petty, or worse; insignificant.  (and ultimately if the guy is on your side they have already or wish they could get in your pants) (seriously thats how simple men are) (*Most anyway)

Anyway if we as women would just stop being woman haters and stop the compettition and the "queen bee" syndrome we would get a lot more accomplished. Especially in our careers. And like my last blog another thing if us as females ( the obviously superior of the sexes ) stop allowing males to get in the way of our united front think of how much one we could accomplish and how much better our self esteem would be.

If you think about it we get dressed up to look better or equal to another female we always get noticed by the men we are with and other men alike ... even if you think you are having your worst day and you really feel that you shouldn't be in public... there is a man who will look at you and a woman that most of them time (because we care so much what judgement is coming from our same sex counterparts) that you will feel that makes look like the oppisite of americas next top model.

We as women need to stop working against eachother and start embracing eachother.

You are beautiful!

Thats all for now...
until next time
xoxoxo

Stalk me, and never get fake eyelashes....

So today was unbearaby long, my feet heart, my back aches and well before I get into the topic I feel is important for the day; I think I will just share a recipie or two... Apple Coffee cake great in a pinch:
1 1/2 C. Apples diced
1 1/4 C. GP Flour
2 1/8 tsp baking powder
a dash or two of Cinnamon
a Pinch of salt
1 -2 cups of sugar depending on how sweet you dig
Combine together dry. Combine wet. Mix em' together.
Top with 1 part butter, 1 part flour 1/ 1/2 part sugar, and a couple dashes of cinnamon
Bake at 375* til firm

who says you cant wing baking right?

So far I have 67 views on my two posts... Not too bad considering I just started and havent wrriten much of anything too exciting or juicy.

Thanks for the reads by the way. Feel free to comment... feel free to like it, feel free to love it, feel free to hate it, too.

Well, hate is quite a strong word. But, you know what I mean I just want to get some things off my chest and like said before, possibly inspire.

Today I was cooking and apparently something got stuck to my eyelash, I didnt notice it at first, but then it stareted to irritate me. So I had to investigate looking in the mirror i had the tiniest piece of rice on my eye. Pulling it off it reminded me of something I feel that is neccessary to share to all women in there twenties or younger; possibly older....

DONT EVER GET FAKE EYELASHES... (*fake eylashes installed by a tiny asian lady who only charges 40$ to be exact)

Yes sure they may look awsome they may be very attractive, but they are quite possibly the worst idea ever... (And you thought I was speaking needessly) If nothing else heed my words because you will most definately lose you natural eyelashes and they will bug you if you dont remove them correctly they will pully your eyelashes out. All in all its a terrible idea and well you look better witout them.

Women and most people are always looking for what they dont have or want soemthing different then they were born with. If you have curly hair you want staight, if you have straight hair you want curly. If you are a brunette you want blonde, and visa versa. I say F that and just be happy with who you are what you have and enhance that make it better if you can but dont go the fake route its usually more hassel then its worth. Be happy with what god gave ya!

You should you're beautiful.

In about a week or so i am going to do some drastic lifestyle changes and I will keep my readers posted on what the results will be. They are mostly diet and excersize changes so I will keep you posted.

Other then that I think I am taped out of writing mostly because the audience around me has brought me to a not inspired anymore.

Thanks for reading
More to come...
XOXO

The thing is...

The beutiful thing about living on the ocean is the sound of the waves crashing on the bow as you try desperately to fall asleep. Its what I imagine its like for fishes in a fishtank with all the pumps and heaters and such. Two very long days and well its about the same there is otyer girls here but none quite as I guess girly as I. And then there is men. Gross stinky men. I love them in small doses but not at this magnitutued. So I guess when asked if I would do this for another ten years my responce is definately absolutely not. However today I guess would be good considering I learned how to make home made sorbet.... 1 part fresh fruit juice, 1 part water, and 1 part sugar.... bring to a boil... then freeze (not all the way).... let it crystilyze .... theb put into a food processer... then refreze. Vioala sorbet....nice huh? Well onto other things a thought.... if we all were just a lil nicer to eachother and maybe just a lil more open minded maybe just a lil more tolerent we would never cause insecurites from our own insecurities in another. It takes one person to think you are cool so that you are that quintesential cool. It takes one person to hate you to make a lot of people give you a hard time. The way I see it maybe there would be less issues if we jusf were all basically neutral and open. If as adults we see it happen instead of join in speak up speak out. That's how bullies get power. In my mind a bully anyway is someone who feels inadiquate and miserable anyway so they to me are not winning. They are definatley the worst people by far next to your gossip. I would touch on gossip now but Its getting late and I have a busy day ahead of me tomorrow.

First

First let me start by saying that I am not a gramatical genius, nor am i a great speller. However, I feel that my life experiences, my line of work and basically my life are interesting enough to write about. I have had many attempts to start a blog but due to my lack of commitment and willingness to make time to share my story I have been unsucessful.

I want to post at least once a week if not more. I want to share my experiences in hopes to inspire and/or help to aviod repeting my mistakes. Basically if there is a diet a pill out there I have tried it, if there is a fad diet I have attempted it. Although this is not a health blog, I wish to share some heath and beuty tips just because well its my blog and I can.

I will also share some great recipies, party planning ideas, and arts and crafts tips.

On top of all that I also would like to give insight on what working in a "man's world" is like. No, I am not a femenist however my line of work gives me some great insight into the male psyche.

Basically hope to share inspire and explore a creative avenue through writing.

Stay tuned for more!
&thanks for coming by!
XOXO